Archive for December, 2008

three ideas for barack obama

December 30th, 2008

POSTED TODAY AT HUFFINGTON POST.  Cross posted here for your reading pleasure. I’ll admit it.  The Rick Warren selection stung.  I really tried not to take it personally.  I raised many gay dollars (insert funny visual here) for the President-elect.  I received more than a handful of emails with the subject line;  “I want my [...]

parental guidance at nj.com

December 23rd, 2008

Beginning this week, I am now blogging at nj.com. It means I am officially coming out as a resident of New Jersey. The blog is called Parental Guidance and a handful of NJ parents (I’m the gay one) offer our thoughts about parenting.  The folks there looked far and wide for the very very best [...]

the glass feels half empty today

December 21st, 2008

PUBLISHED FRIDAY 12/19 ON HUFFINGTON POST. In my family, I am the leader of the “Half Full Glass” club. I don’t have to try hard — it comes kind of naturally. I am a silver-lining kind of gal. But not today. I think I’ve just had it. The New York Times reports this morning (12/19/08) [...]

joan in new blogging book

December 15th, 2008

It’s possible that I was asked to contribute to this terrific new book on my own merits.  I like to think that’s true.  I also wonder if my daughter pulled a few strings for me.  She did work at HuffPo this summer after all.   Maybe I should not care. The bottom line is that the [...]

lesbians in the catskills.

December 15th, 2008

We were on grill duty. Our partners were in the kitchen in charge of dinner prep.  Our partners were ‘in charge’ kind of gals.  When it came to dinner, Karen and I were most decidedly followers. It was a beautiful night after a lovely day.  Maybe we played golf, I’m sure we swam in the [...]

bailing out my bank.

December 4th, 2008

Eileen and I have been Citibank customers since 1983.  Even after we moved to NJ, we continued to bank in NYC. Some combination of inertia and practicality.  Eileen and I both worked in NYC. Not so long ago, Citibank moved into Jersey with fervor.  I can now rattle off three locations within five minutes of [...]

“when i was 27, i was dating men.” (not me. Ellen.)

December 4th, 2008

When Ellen’s sitcom was cancelled, I was the CEO at GLAAD,  a media watchdog group.  My younger kids loved introducing me to friends “My mom is a watchdog!” they would say.  I remember it being a sad day.  For gay and lesbian Americans, her show (pre-Will and Grace) was more than groundbreaking.  Many of us [...]

cnn-enema

December 1st, 2008

Hi. I am Joan Garry and I am a news addict. In the months and weeks leading up to Election Day, I couldn’t help myself. CNN, realclearpolitics.com, five-thirty-eight.com. I didn’t just check in at these sites. It got to the point where I would become furious at the lack of new content even though I’d [...]


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